Anyway you write it....

...on a computer, in longhand or printed, you'll need to decide how you want your writing to look.
If your handwriting, like mine, is not legible, try these hands instead:

Real "hand writing".

Not feminine enough?  Well there is a way to be more, shall we say, "flowery"?

Daffodil, is this a good idea?

For the guys then we have to find a "really chunky" way to get our message across.

..don't know this is called "Baby Kruffy", is that for a man?

Well I don't know what to do then, we've shown so unusual fonts here by nothing that looks like it would take up a lot of room, you know like a full page of monograms.

This is "Chiffon" font, looks pretty girly to me.

So all kinds of good writing tools out there, just Google "fonts" and find some you like.